I did not expect sitting and sleeping upright to feel so much better. I knew my core would be tender because of the incision locations, but I did not realize how much my core powers every little move. Adjusting pillows was tricky, and I didn’t have the abdominal strength to stay propped up. If I were flat on my back in those first three days, I needed my husband to help me sit up. Staying upright became the plan. I bought a wedge pillow with knee support for bed and a smaller wedge for the couch, and both made resting more comfortable.

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I usually sleep on my side or stomach. Those first weeks were an adjustment, but once I started to heal, I wanted side sleep again. My sister suggested a body pillow to support my stomach and keep my hips aligned. It was a dream, and made turning onto my side feel comfortable.

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Keeping with the pillow theme, a seat belt pillow made car rides much more comfortable, especially on the drive home from the hospital. It cushions the strap so it does not press on tender areas or incisions. It softens the belt on tender spots, making the ride more comfortable.

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I streamed a lot on my iPad and iPhone in the first week. A couple of long charging cables were essential. I looped one around the bedpost so it wouldn't disappear. I had another by the couch and the last one by my favorite chair.